When you stop showing effort to a girl, that's when she'll start to
think that you're not choosing her anymore.
That's when she'll be
convinced that your heart's not in it anymore.
And that's when she'll
believe that you aren't falling in love with her every day anymore
because effort is everything to a girl.
Whether you've been with her for
2 months or 2 years,
Effort is something that she's always going to
expect to see,
Because it's the kind of reassurance she needs for her
to continue making an effort of her own because she can't be only one
trying.
She can't be the only one wanting to make it work, and she can't
be the only one giving it her all.
As a man, you should always be
chasing her and making her feel like she's everything to you.
And no,
that doesn't mean you always have to make some grand gesture to show her
that you care.
But it's the little things that win her over.
Without
effort, it just makes her feel like you're bored with her.
She's no
longer making you happy and she's just not good enough for you.
And a
girl can only feel that way for so long until she feels like you're not
worth the effort anymore. Maybe it's because she would make such an
effort to be with you and she would like to believe that you'd do the
same for her.
But if you really did care about her, making an effort
should be something that's natural.
And it shouldn't be difficult.
So if
it is, then don't be surprised if that's how you're going to lose her
and once you do, it would take even more of an effort to get her back.
- Teddy Nguyen -
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